you CAN succeed

Erase negative energy from your lives, many times we get caught up in the "what ifs" of life and keep ourselves from achieving our goals because we fear failure and that fear alone is enough to discourage us from even trying with all our effort and in essence defeating yourself. there is however a good side to failure, you can learn valuable lessons in it and guess what......you can try again until you succeed, just remember to take notes before attempting again (so you don't look stupid lol). Remember the human mind is a powerful thing, if you believe something to be true, you can bring it into your reality, you must not allow yourself you defeat yourself, we can be our own worst enemies. stay positive and BELIEVE that you can succeed at anything, perception is reality, that means whatever we PERCEIVE to be real in our mind IS real in our lives to us. get out of your own way and start enjoying life the way it is meant to be enjoyed, blessings are waiting.

You are worthy

Ever see a woman that could literally have any man she wants but instead constantly picks the bottom of the barrel loser men? You know the kind, the career dope boy with a %99.7 certain future of frequent jail time or the woman beater and the ever popular "no job baby momma drama stay in HER house while she works" guy. I just think "why are they so stuck on these men who are only called men because they have a penis then complain that "all men ain't shit" and say things on Facebook like "i need a good man"? I figured out a long time ago, some females just don't know what a "good man" is, or how they should be treated, they may have a list of things that they want in a mate but instead of demanding that from a man they often accept the loser in hopes of changing him, attention, he's a good actor or any other reason you can think of. they are so emotionally and mentally beat down that they may not recognize a good man if he simply walked up and said hello. Since many of the women in this topic have usually been screwed over many times the tend to raise their guard and keep it up after each encounter, not knowing that they are hindering their healing process and possibly missing out on the good ones because they get lumped in with every other guy after she gets hurt. Ladies the good guys understand, and that's cool but trust me, its not our job to heal your heart, you must accomplish that alone so you can appreciate a good person and come into new relationships without emotional baggage, its only fair to you both. you gotta realize we are not all the same and you CAN get the man you want once you stop allowing garbage into your life. You deserve better.

team work

So after Michelle Obama gave an amazing speech last night, i gotta say this, LADIES STEP YOUR GAME UP!!! that is what i call support and having your man's back!!! when you see a man really working hard you need to be there for him he NEEDS to know that you are in his corner no matter what, not just when things are going good but even in the bad times. A man has to fight every day in this world (especially a black man) and when it seems like the world is against him, the LAST thing he needs is the person that he loves nit picking at him as well, what i saw last night was the embodiment of a REAL GROWN WOMAN, she just set the bar so high for the barbies and 5 star chics (i detest you all by the way), i bet Barack waxed that ass when she hit the drive way lol. but seriously, what i see in them is true relationship team work. That is just how it should be, we can get far alone but with a GREAT partner you can go the distance. not here to bash women or talk politics at all, just to say, when you have a good man ladies, treat them as such and fellas, when you have a good woman, do the same. Unify and conquer anything in your way, TOGETHER.