Unity is Possible

you know what killed chivalry ladies? your hoodrat "i don't need a man" "ewww he so thirtsy" "he too nice" "i'm independent" "he gave me a compliment because he just wanna fuck" type females.........more of of us men WOULD show chivalry if SOME of you would allow us to without thinking we have other motives. AND the fact that many of YOU yes YOU would rather have a "thug" type rather than an intelligent brother with actual goals aside from the new J's is just a death sentence in itself. sorry i had to weigh in a bit on this one. notice i said "SOME" ladies before you jump down my throat, just agree with me here and everything will go smoothly. and i want to add, guess what, destroyed the image of the black man in the eyes of the black woman, the systematic destruction of the Black man's ability to actually BE a man and the head of a household but not by ourselves. we are in a time where the Black man is becoming aware that we NEED to retake our position but we also NEED your help ladies. you want a black man that listens? well stop choosing the REAL NIGGAS over the GROWN MEN. you want a man to take charge and LEAD, then learn how to FOLLOW. LEARN the true meaning and STRENGTH in the word "submissive" and stop screaming "i'm independent" but secretly wanting a man to take care of you, here is a secret, you should NEVER be in a Penis measuring contest with your man....... let him be the man and encourage him, be supportive and NURTURE his growth and it will be done in return, if he has to waste his time fighting with you, does that do anything but hinder his forward progress? if you two are not moving in the same direction, you are slowly taking each other down. Place two Oxen together and place a harness on their necks, watch how they act. as long as the both of them attempt a separate path they will make no forward progress, before long they will become weak and eventually die, get the idea? -------i can go all day with this but moral of the story is, the black man and black woman must learn to Love one another and break free of the psychological chains that bind us and have seemingly put us against each other. we are not each others enemies. until we see it on a large scale, progress, mental freedom and UNITY can not be attained.

New year new me.....shut up

OK so now is the time of year when SOME  chics start screaming "new year new me"......let me stop you misguided heffas RIGHT THERE lol. First off, why are you waiting until now to become a "new me"? You were lazy all year until now?  secondly, where you not just screaming the SAME thing last year around the same time? Soooooo the old you was messed up, the new you from 2012 was STILL messed up and now you want to try again? Get a clue babe, reinvention is not your strong point lol. Here is a push in the right direction..... BE YOURSELF!! Stop trying to be any "new you" and just be who you are. Self improvement is great but you are not and will never be perfect, be at peace with the "you" that you are and present HER to the world, you may be surprised at the positive response you get. It's OK to actually like who you are. Try it.

drinking and thinking

Tipsy thoughts: in this life we are born into an existence that is not determined by anything but our free will, choices, and the experiences that we shall go through. we typically change as a result of or adapt to as we grow. everything we go through and every person we meet has an effect on us whether we want to admit it or not. now think of this, we are constantly changing and evolving beings, who you are today is not the same person you will be tomorrow as a direct result of prior stated experiences and people met. we pick up traits based on things we see from others at times, we are constantly taking in information and learning, sometimes on an unconscious level and those things have effects on our development as people. some of us are prisoners within our own minds and don't realize that anything is possible if we become aware of the shackles that we sometimes place on ourselves. nothing is out of reach from you if you truly have the desire and drive to attain it. free yourselves.

My Nerd DNA

Star wars is my all time favorite, even have "Jedi" on my old Marine Dog tags, I've been a fan ever since my father took me to see it on Scott AFB and a real R2D2 rolled up and down the rows during the movie, my kid brain was officially BLOWN!! however, my dad also sat me down to watch Star trek with him on afternoons after my homework was done and again, I was utterly fascinated, Spock was the freaking coolest......then there was the time my mother FORCED me to read "the Hobbit" over the summer for a book report we had to submit to her.....I was furious, how DARE she take my Nintendo time away with....a BOOK!!...And after getting into it, I LOVED IT, next I was at the library looking for the other stories!! So I can't choose one, my Geekazoid DNA is infused with them all. I won't get into my love for Anime but you get it. These are all staples of the Nerd Universal space time continuum.

Be the blessing

You get from life whatever you put into it, be kind to others and respect those who do so to you. surround yourself with positive people who possess the traits of loyalty, honesty and humility and see how your life gains a quality you never thought possible. Blessings come in all forms, not just material. Think about how sometimes at your lowest point, someone says just the right thing to lift you up. At those times the right person may be there with an unexpected helping hand or encourage you to not give up. Now, think of this, sometimes a person you may or may not know may hit a low point, you should be there for them as well, in doing so, you give back and become a vessel of blessing to them. Just see how good it will make you feel just to help someone. It's good for your spirit, try it.

Veteran

On this day I remember all of my brothers and sisters in arms that have lost their lives in the name of freedom. Serving our country was a choice, not mandatory so in other words, we choose to give our lives so that innocent civilians never have to. We are not perfect, we are not machines, we are simply everyday men and women with families just like anyone else. We chose to fight and we gladly will give our lives so you can hopefully keep on living. Thank you for allowing us, to serve you the people and our country. Semper Fidelis, always faithful.

full circle

everything in life has a way of returning full circle, what you put out into the universe shall always and forever come back to you. karma works both ways, negative and positive energy within our actions, words and treatment of others multiply and return to us. it is our choice to try to be the best person that we can or not. as a man i try my best to be loyal and true to the ones around me as well as the ones i love and care for, to this day anytime i need anything, i can just call any one of my friends that i have helped in my lifetime. when i die, i want people to remember that i was a good person and a man of integrity despite my many flaws.