Variety of people

I think we have too many cookie cutter types of people in the world. Too afraid to be themselves so they spend their lives imitating other people and not knowing it. It's ok to be a little weird, then again who sets the standard for "Normal". Be yourself regardless of what others think. Variety keeps this mud ball called Earth interesting. 

Understand This, for the Ladies

LADIES, WOMEN, bitches, hoes, hoodrats, bad bitches, aquafina flow title holders, Nikki minaj copies, birds, skeezers, whores, side chics, jump offs, feminists, Lesbians, Sista Soldiers and what ever else some females are calling themselves these days or acting like. what ever category you fall under or fit in, take a seat and listen read carefully, i don't explain myself often but when I do, take note. (side note, I figured i would cover all my bases, some folks call themselves one thing but identify with another and are REALLY something else, this way everyone can fit in)

I realize that some of my posts are a bit harsh but the truth hurts and in this life I've learned that you either accept it or it will eventually slap you in the face. TRUTH is that I care deeply for all women, no matter what walk of life you come from and for one main reason, i KNOW the greatness that resides within each and every one of you. So when i make posts that seem to criticize the lost souls of YOUR species it is not to degrade you or belittle your existence, it is to light a fire within your soul so that you can tap into the GREATNESS that i know is in you.

As with any journey there will be bumps in the road before you get to the final destination and with saying that i relate it to my style of speaking and writing, I often take the rough route to hit on a few sour patches that most others would avoid. with that said i understand that it would be easy for some to focus on the seemingly negative points and without knowing it miss the overall GOOD message that is really being presented. just like a puzzle you can't see the big picture if you are only looking at the individual pieces.

NOW with all that being said, just know that i am not a "woman basher" i simply believe that there are too many folks that glaze over the bad things in order to be politically correct and in doing so they become an enabler of less than desirable behavior and displays of sheer fuckery that some women show. as with anything the most negative things will ALWAYS get more attention than anything positive so no matter how great you are as an individual ladies, the bad seeds and the Bad bitches of the world tarnish YOUR name and YOUR image and create bad aspect that the rest of the world sees and will tend to clump you in with. I think that it's time YOU and the your sisters take charge and show everyone that you are not defined by these bad aspects that have helped create the stereotypes that we all have witnessed. also I charge any man with the right mind and drive to help UPLIFT the great women that are out there and encourage them to not conform to what society and other factors dictate but to step out and BECOME greater. show them that we LOVE and appreciate them and help them see that they do not have to become carbon copies of bad examples but they can CREATE new examples for young women to aspire to become.

Now that that is out of the way, I'll let you in on a little secret in regards to my love life and past. I have had some GREAT dating experiences and I've had some nightmares when it comes to the dating scene but the good out weighs the bad in such magnitude that i can never be a bitter man. I am good friends with just about everyone I've ever dated. every experience was a learning one and some worked out and some didn't but one fact remains is that i don't regret anything, nor do i regret any woman I've ever come across........ok there is one but, she was certified loco in de cabasa lol, she was nuttier than squirrel poop lol. but even so, that experience taught me how to really appreciate a good woman and show her how a man is suppose to treat a woman. it's true that sometimes it takes the bad to teach you how to recognize the good.

in closing, for future reference, if my posts make you feel some kind of way, if it angers you in some shape form or fashion, if you find yourself calling me out of my name because i stepped on your toes mentally.........GOOD!!! that let's me know that i'm telling the truth, i never want to be fake or sugar coat anything just to stroke some egos or cyberlly pat anyone on the back, if what i say makes you want to be a better person just to prove me wrong then my mission is accomplished. I am not a perfect person, truth be told i NEVER want to be, all i can be or ever strive to be is a better ME. All i want in the end is for myself, those around and anyone i can reach to do the same. sure it's not required of me in life but if it can help then i am doing something to make a difference in someone's life. Take care of each other and others will take care of you. have a great day. and if you read all of this.........you are cool in my book. thanks. peace.

MommaDear

I LOVED seeing my Grandmother yesterday, she's such a sweet little old lady lol. She has alzheimer's so conversation loops but it's endearing because she's so genuine and loving no matter what. She says "Baby well thank you for helping me in the house, do you know my son Billy Joe" Me: "yes ma'am that's my Dad" Her: "oh really *laughter* you're so youthful looking and handsome" Me: "Thank you MommaDear"

*5 minutes later*

Her: "And who are you, you're a handsome young man" Me: "thank you mamadear I'm your grandson, I'm Billy's Son" *She busts out laughing "WELL I'LL BE!!" Yall grew up so fast"  we talked like that for about an hour. I loved every minute. I remember when she was healthy, I'd clean her room and she'd give me 50 cents.  I'd take the money and run to the corner store and get a bag full of penny candy then go hide it under the bed. Any time I got in trouble I would run to her room and she would save me from a butt whooping saying "Billy leave that boy alone" the only time she got upset was when we played in the room where the "good furniture" was, of course it had the plastic on it lol. So many good memories. I remember once myself, my brother Zuberi Givens and my cousin Kelvin Smith were playing in the back field with a barrel, lots of wood and matches. You can see where this is going smh. We left the fire going and came in to eat lunch. Then we smell smoke, look out the back window and see the entire field on fire. We start freaking out and my Dad's car pulls up.........I'm a dead kid walking (x_x). My Dad walks in and he KNEW we had something to do with it, he starts fussing and I pretty much saw my life flash before me lol. Then MommaDear walks in and says "Billy I'm so glad you burned all that high grass back there, no telling what was crawling back there, snakes and OOOO I can't stand snakes, how do they walk with no legs". YES!!! He got the praise and my backside was safe to sit lol. I was saved!! No whooping but my Dad just looked at me and said "I owe you one" lol.

Memories like that stick out in my life, last night was no different.  Cherish your loved ones folks. Life is short and before you know it everyone is gone. What lasts forever are the moments we create together. 

Take the first step

MESSAGE OF THE DAY:

You can never finish anything if you never start.......
Don't let fear of failure or the perceived hardships on the way detour you from beginning the journey to success. Nothing worth having is easy. All it takes is that first step and you've already done the hardest part.......now just finish.

Chivalry thoughts revisited

Historically Chivalry was a particular code of conduct that Knights were held to These qualities are idealized by knighthood, such as bravery, courtesy, honor, and gallantry toward women. Common courteous behavior in a nutshell. Many men lack manners as a result of never being taught by an older gentleman. Also some men who DO practice chivalry don't display it simply for not having respectable women to attempt chivalrous behavior with. And my all time favorite. ......the women (not all) with the stank attitude that expect it but don't deserve it and the women (not all) that won't accept it based on previous interactions with assholes who fake it for phone numbers lol.

As a man who DOES practice chivalry I was taught by my father to always treat women with respect regardless of any circumstance. This sounds fine just saying it but in real world situations it's hard for us grown men to discern when to display our manners. This is because with so many differences in women out here and upbringing we can (at any given moment) meet one who is not receptive, doesn't want it, demands it, disregards it or in rare cases actually enjoys it and simply says thank you.

So many factors are included in this occurrence that I can't touch on each aspect but for right now these are just a few. Also we must take into account the role the "independent woman" movement introduced. On one hand you have women with the mentality that they need no man for anything, but still want us to display chivalry. ......wrap your brains around that one folks lol. Then there are the men who treat women right JUST to get sex and with that creates extremely cautious women that are skeptical of men with manners. So for us who DO act in genuine ways it's very disheartening when trying to be a certain way without knowing what comes next from the woman. So as we can see there are aspects from both sexes that add to the diminished idea of chivalry. But trust me it's not dead, just some bitches messed it up for grown women and some mitches screwed it up for grown men.

Make her the main coarse

Make her the main coarse
------ She walks into my domain wearing nothing but a black trench coat and red high heels. She is  filled with anticipation and wondering what pleasure awaits. The lights are off and a single candle is lit, it flickers slowly as she walks passed it to touch me. We embrace each other with a passionate hug and I begin to kiss her as my hands slide underneath her garments to feel her warm soft body. I can smell her perfume lightly and perfectly placed on her neck and I begin to suck and lick on it. She grabs my hands and place them at my sides then whispers "Slow down baby let me drive for a second".

She pushes me down onto the bed and then takes off my shoes, socks and pants; then my shirt and now I'm completely naked. I love to be in charge but this feels interestingly intriguing.  She Begins to kiss my stomach and my dick starts to wake up as she slowly makes her way closer to it. Her mouth simply hovers over it as it throbs, she flits her tongue like wet butterfly wings over the head and begins to slowly suck, with each up and down motion she takes in another inch until she's deep throating my entire penis. Choking herself and spitting with slow, slurping and sensual lust. Next she stands up and within the candle light I see the trench coat slide off her beautiful body, the coat hits the floor and with that she kicks off her heels then walks forward and stands upon the bed above my erect engorged dick. She lowers herself just above the head then pushes just the tip in, I reach up to attempt to pull her down completely onto me. She pushes my hands down and says "Baby I got this.......I'm driving this stick shift, just enjoy the ride".

She begins to simply rotate her hips masterfully keeping the head inside, around......and around.....and around  MMMMMMMMMM down one stroke........around ......and around and MMMMM MMMMMMM two strokes as she gets dripping wet and I fight the urge to just thrust my pelvis up and my dick DEEP inside her FUCK this pussy is good and she is messing my head up......she starts to be overcome with her own desires for more deep strokes......SLACK SPLACK SPLACK SPLACK those hips start to slam against me and my dick touches the bottom of her pussy and touching each tight wall. She falls forward onto me and I wrap my arms around her as our lower regions continue to grind and dance to the music of our deep breaths and sensual moans and grunts. We roll around in bed fighting for dominance in this Sexesode. No one backs down but it's beneficial for both. I lay back and pull her up to straddle my mouth. I love it when a woman straddles my face. She lowers herself down just above my mouth and i grab her thighs while she grabs the backboard. then i start with some slow licks to feel out where everything is located and make sure i control my breath so the hot air stimulates her pussy. as i am licking i push my tongue inside gently every few licks so she feels my warm tongue enter her hot spot. her knees may start to get weak so (at this point i lay her down on her back and continue and i put her legs on my shoulders) as i am doing all this i reach up and caress her breast, firmly but not to rough. when i feel that it's time to turn up the heat i cover her pussy with my lips and make my tongue go faster while it's inside her, up and down and side to side, no teeth involved (that's a no no, this aint no chewing gum)

---now it's time to really mess her head up. i get to the clit and place my lips around it and start to suck it gently while my tongue twirls around it in alternating directions. I lick my tongue out to trace the opening. I curl my index finger up into her G-Spot and massage it while sucking the clit. She begins squirming and looking like a break dancer. ---she grabs the back of my head with one hand and uses the other to grab the sheets .......pulling my head in tighter as her legs begin to shake she is about to BLOW!! I start sucking a little harder and really moving my tongue around it, i want her to damn near pass out off this orgasm. then "wait........wait......no don't stop......don't. ......uuuummmm.......mmmmmmm..........oooooh.......OOOOOOH OOOOOOOOOH.......FUUU.....FFFFFFFUCK......OOH SHIT I CAN'T. ...stop.......mmmmm......mmmmmm.......... she cums dramatically i hold the legs to my shoulders and keep licking, slowing it down so she can get ready for more dick. Still Hard and waiting to re enter her hot dripping pussy, I raise her legs up and slowly push inside her. It's wetter than before and with each stroke I feel myself getting closer to climax. I lean back and cross her legs closed. This makes her pussy feel tighter. I start to make deeper pumps and lean back more so that my dick head grazes her G spot with each increasingly hard thrust. Shit I'm losing it.........just a little more......just a little.......fuck it.......fuck it.......yes it's coming I can feel it......at this moment I am slamming myself into her thighs.....she grabs her legs spreading them wide as I transition into push up position and DUMP dick inside her. The bed feels like it's going to break as we fuck each other like we hate each other.........shit......"FUCK ME......FUCK ME BABY" she screams....."Cum for me!!.....please..I want it"......Faster and faster .........I feel it about to erupt out of me........Mmmmm..

Mmmmmm

Mmmmmmmmm

FUUUUUUUCK....... HERE IT....

CUUUUUUMS.......she pulls me deep inside her as I fill her up with cum .....body shivering and tingling all over. Head spinning.....damn.....shit......motherfucker........... "baby.....you on the pill?" "No".......well damn.....

Save them

Todays young women are being raised to be overly sexual and programmed to be under appreciated by young men who were taught to disrespect females and aspire to be "real niggas" rather than responsible grown men. I think there are many factors that come into play here. Sad truth is some of these "mothers" think that their child being able to "twerk" and "catch the wall" is cute, then when the kid becomes a teen mother the parents wonder where they went wrong, being a 30 year 29 year old grandma is not cute ladies. They rarely think that the very LACK of their parenting when it was most needed was not performed. They think just feeding and sheltering a child is the equivalent of raising the child. Poor misguided individuals. And the Men who help create this problem are just as guilty, Fellas we MUST show our young ladies how women should be properly treated, regardless of your relationship status. You should hate the title "baby daddy" with a passion. Yes I understand that some women make it hard to be a father but remember YOU didn't fall inside her by accident. Now handle your business as a man and fight for your title as FATHER. 

I don't think some parents realize just how much their children take in and absorb. They see everything. These are far different times we live in. When I was a kid BET and MTV were brand new, youtube didn't exist and the internet was just gaining speed. Google wasn't as big as it is now. We actually had to play outside. We didn't have cell phones or social sites. True text messaging was a folded piece of paper with writing on it. Today kids have unmonitored access to all the good and the bad that this corrupted world has to offer. Not sheltering them but teaching them how to discern what is and is not acceptable behavior is a key in this day and age. We MUST save our children. When children can dance and recite words to adult content songs better than read in their current grade level. We have a major problem folks.