Better ways

Slavery can be blamed for a LOT , slavery never went away, it just got made legal through the jail systems. Once you are IN the system you don't get out. Through the systematic removal of the Black man as the central piece of the black family they effectively created an image of a weak man unable to lead and take care of his family, add in government assistance programs and you create a dependency in the women FURTHER lowering the Man as that provider and leader. Bring in feminist and lure the Black woman into a cause that's not theirs and widen the division. Still while jailing black men grows (legal slavery) corral blacks into science "projects" and place everything they need to kill themselves into the lab rat cage and sit back and watch.

Everything can be traced back to slavery in my opinion, black men and women of America are mentally traumatized, in an identity crisis and programmed to hate each other. We became test subjects after they couldn't just get rid of us. Just my thoughts though. Carry on brothers.

.I lost despite my upbringing, in a struggle to fit in to be accepted as a "real nigga" while being ridiculed for being smart, being accused of "acting white" just because I made good grades and spoke proper English. My mother telling me to be better than what is is expected of a young black man and my WRONG friends wanting me to be just like them. My Father showed me how to be a grown man and I can't lie, I did everything BUT that. I was headed to the prison based off the things I was doing. But it took a few scares and a few friends getting jail sentences for me to WAKE UP. I struggled transitioning from hustling fast money to legit jobs.

Folks don't understand that you can't lead a person out of darkness when they don't know the lights are off. Just like you can't free a slave that doesn't know he is still in shackles. We are in mental shackles these days. Some of us are free and trying to point fingers and ridicule the lost, they won't change unless we can turn on the lights. Pointing fingers and casting blame just causes fights rather than teach or reach. A person drowning in ignorance will fight to stay ignorant if they don't know any better. You end up spending time arguing a person standing still instead of taking them along on your side towards better ways. 

Black identity crisis

When black people say that black women are the most beautiful women in the world........that's their opinion and it's not throwing other races under the bus. And why shouldn't black people think otherwise. As far as black women wearing weave and other accessories to appear more European, we gotta realize how badly we all (men and women) have been brainwashed to think our own features are bad. Back then black men were even perming their hair to straighten it. We've all fell victim to the "white is right" mentality. There are so many cases of men and women bleaching their skin and doing everything to appear LESS than what they were born as many of us even speak differently around others. And then our own people will accuse us of "sounding white" when it happens but it's just proper English. We are even ridiculed for getting good grades and trying to give ourselves a better chance to succeed in the world we live in which was obviously not designed to allow us the freedom to do so. Crabs in a bucket mentality runs wild in our communities. Why? We have been conditioned to perpetually keep each other down.

The mental damage is much deeper than folks understand, we live in a world (America) where Black men and women are having a daily identity crisis, we're all mentally traumatized and for some the cycle never ends and is carried on to the children. To the point where we name our children whiter names so they won't be bypassed when turning in job applications. So many things play a part in why we are so mixed up today.

And we fight each other constantly, some to prove who's blacker, more conscious, more of a "real nigga" prettier, smarter and so on. Time to wake up. We didn't start the sickness we all suffer from but we can end it.

We need to come together

Masculinist = feminist with dicks........two extremist groups that do nothing but divide the genders that were BUILD to work together. But not many see that.

And as far as the black community, I submit to the MGTOW black men, if the black women joining the feminist movement damaged our community and social dynamic so much and you believe it as fact, why in the heck would you join an similar movement when we have yet to fix the problems that the first mistake made? Seems illogical and history will repeat itself.

We have too much to lose by further spreading ourselves thin with movements that we don't need to get involved in.

You want to fix the black family? You must work on THAT not "go your own way"

You want to keep our brothers out of the system that's not created to benefit us? Then you educate other brothers AND the sistas so they both know it does more damage than good to the whole family unit.

You want to correct the wayward behavior of our men and women? STAY and show them you care enough to not give up on them. Pull these young men and women out of the streets and awaken them. Stop bashing each other into a deeper sleep.

Acting like a pit of wolves that will eat each other rather than find a way out just keeps us all destined for failure.

Why do some men hate black women but talk so much about it?

If you hate black women so much why talk about them constantly? The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over but expecting a different result each time. So why have sex with these supposed vile women? If you would still sleep with them but claim they are disgusting what does that say about you? Only pigs like to wallow in mud. Why constantly talk about Them if you don't want them?

Seems illogical to invest so much time in something or someone you supposedly despise so much. But to bait them into arguments then claim they are emotional and incapable of logic is illogical in itself since YOU started the engagement with that emotional person knowing a logical discussion is not possible. Attention whoring at it's best. And seeking the attention from that supposedly vile creature the black woman seems rather idiotic.

So is it that you really love the black woman but don't know any way to tell her? That makes more sense. The old juvenile "hit the girl you like" tactic. When you think about it all you find patterns that reveal very underdeveloped minds of men who fail to see their own short comings. Most evolved men strive to improve self and others.

The greatest prison ever built has no bars. Free your mind men and realize that you are aiding in your own destruction.

Ethereal Love

Ethereal love
This is a piece written at random by two like minds
Sitting on the roof, I notice a shooting star and wish for a dream to come true.
A dream of what could be and with whom I would share this moment with in the future.
At times I wonder where my celestial half is because I am surely not from this planet.
Only they can understand the interactions my brain has with the real world and the reality it speaks.
Inside this ethereal mind, worlds are created by sheer thought and the world created misses her.. which means it is worthless because she is the sun. The sun that nourishes my thoughts and brings light to my soul.
The sun that caresses my body and warms my spirt; it ignites me with life.
It fills me with the motivation to breathe and live for each day knowing that my celestial half will forever make my uncertain world a meaningful playground of emotion.
And in it we can flourish like that of a dying flower touched by the light and nurtured by the very earth its seed once rested.
The very earth we walk upon each day searching for each other's existence and following only our inner compass to guide the way.
Although my compass has been misaligned but a few times, it knows deep within, where my true half resides.
And in that direction I will pool my life's energy because once I've arrived I know that my life will forever be changed by the beauty of a single "Hello". One simple five letter word will be the true beginning of my life because I will finally be whole, complete; at peace.
The closing of the circle will emit joy and those things I believed would be my doom will wash away leaving only you and me against the world.
Against all odds and whatever treachery may come, I would gladly die by your side knowing that our love is eternal, then our spirits may leave their earthly vessels by which they are bound, once again to soar the cosmos.
Touching every star along the way to brighten the world with a glimpse of who we once were apart but how powerful we have become together.
Flying faster than comets, shining brighter than the brightest star, intertwined becoming one in each others energy in love. When you lay your hand upon mine and lean in to bare your sole to me a mirror appears and we are one in the same; each breathe, each thought, each emotion.
Look behind eyes filled with passion and desire, for the eyes are said to be the windows to the soul and you are its keeper.
I gladly surrender to you.
I give you all of me and expect nothing in return for through your eyes I have seen it all and bear witnesss to true beauty unmatched by another.
For you are the one and only. Making love would be an understatement, this is more than just a physical act, it has started deep within the closely guarded gate of our minds.
It is intensified by getting lost in every kiss and my mind whispering 'yes' knowing that you can hear me and can feel what my body wants, what it needs. Warmth of your hands radiate through each gentle touch of your finger tips, wrapped in one anothers arms, meshing together as two beings with one shared heart.
My smile duplicated by yours while your lips steal my breathe away where ever they land.
Each target is not predetermined but governed by our every wish, I exist but only to please you my goddess.
And I in turn exist to make your every wish come true and to venture into your heart and make it my own desire to please you beyond your imagination. Then we exist for each other, surround me with all that you are, become my air so that I may live by your essence.
Become my thoughts so that I can never be lost in fear of lonelines again; guide me to your infinite love.
Teach me every nook, every curve, every soft detail of your entire body so that I may study you closely, slowly, completely in your glory.
Let me explore every one of your fantasies and heighten them with my love so when you reach your limit your heaven will be in my eyes and inside my body. Let me bathe in your love so that it flows in and through me, around me and covers me entirely and vice versa, so that when I enter you it will be the equivalent of another dimension of pleasure on a mental plateau.
Let me hear you speak your pleasure as your world collides with mine and your passion evident in your movements. Movements come natural when paired with one who is so close to your own heart; bring me to my limit then join me in an explosion of the mind, body and soul.
And bask in this moment's existence for it is the only thing your body has ever wanted, ever needed; a place where your dream of peace has come true. Inside you. Inside me and outside the world we came from.
Physical plains of existence cease to exist in our world we are all that appears. We are all that matters; me and you alone in a realm of utter joy; there is no falling because there is no end, no beginning just infinity.......

Belittling women does not make you more of a man

We see it every day in many forms but it never really seems to sit right with most of us with sense and morals. That issue is Black woman bashing, it's understandable that the ones that do it the most think that they are "exposing truth" but the real truth is that their energy is wasted on issues that pale in comparison to the big picture and they lack the intelligence to see otherwise.

We live in a world where the inner cities are plagued with Black on Black crimes, the murder rate is constantly rising, women and children are homeless, police brutality, crooked jail systems, Fatherless girls and boys and thousands dying from the deadly spread of STDs. Why are these "men" focused on "bedwenches", weaves and single mothers the most?

For every single mother that exists the is a man who ran away from his SHARED responsibility. It takes two to create a child yet many of these men who seem to hate women can't understand the basics in human reproduction or so it may seem. We have music glorifying drug dealers and gangstas and THESE are the male figures our fatherless sons are trying to emulate, THESE are the male figures that are teaching your future what a man is suppose to be. There are young men who will die in prison because somewhere WE failed to SHOW them a better way.  But you are focused on weave and scandal?

What purpose does attacking women serve when you have nothing constructive to actually SAY? If you spend your time convincing a woman that she is nothing she will BE nothing. You will crush her spirit and she will not aspire to do anything other that be exactly what you've told her she is. Why? Because as men WE are the ones who lead. Some women will change for the better but we cannot afford to leave the others by the wayside simply because you LACK the mental capacity to reach them as well. There are more ways to reach the ones you so called love. Constantly coming from a place of anger will only place them into a defensive mind state and your efforts are lost before they ever gain ground. And if you think that love would intentionally berate a woman as a whole based on the things you see wrong then you know very little about love.

Women are not children, you cannot reprimand them as such, to think so you are treating them like they have no comprehension skills and for that you will fail. Respect and love with the intention of building a stronger and effective BALANCE between men and women is needed. Positive actions breed positive results. Every man can possess leadership skills but every man is not a leader. You can have good intentions and still lead others to more destruction. If you truly LOVE our women you will bring them closer and find out what is needed to unify and not divide. Now I challenge you to see more than what's there. Constantly pointing your finger at ONE thing will always blind you from everything else around you. 

Belittling women does not make you more of a man.

Communication

Communication is a big problem between men and women because there is a MAJOR communication gap between men and women that STARTS at birth. Think about it, young women are raised and taught to express their emotions, communicate and voice their feelings. Young boys on the other hand are taught that this kind of thing is seen as "soft" or not manly. We are never taught to express our innermost feelings nor are we encouraged to do do.

Now fast forward to adulthood. Many women WANT a man who is able to do these things and TALK to her. As men we are often unable to properly do this because we never nurtured that part of ourselves. In essense we have a stunted communicative skill in regards to our female counterparts. This and other factors contribute to the communication problem that men and women face. We must remove the stigma that comes with being men who can actually talk to our women and women must understand that they can be receptive of this possibility. With both sides willing, it can drastically change the dynamic. Just my thoughts though.