Thursday, June 19, 2014

Mothers and daughters

Ladies you talk about how much you hate hoes and bad behaving females all the time, and rightfully so. But do you ever think about how much of an impact you have in your daughters lives? YOU are literally the first woman she encounters in life and as such you set the example of WHAT a woman is and HOW a woman should carry herself.

Are you instilling good qualities in them so that she knows what a decent man is and what treatment she should allow? Is she seeing first hand through your interaction with her father how a woman treats her mate? Or if single your dating habits?  What kind of men does she observe you with? She is a direct reflection of you.

so if you are constantly parading bad boys and thugs around guess what?
If you are unruly and less than respectable in your actions then guess what?

What are your thoughts, be honest?

Fathers and daughters

Fellas we talk about how much we hate hoes and dislike bad behaving women and rightfully so. But do we ever think about how much of an impact we truly have on our daughters lives? We are literally the first man she will ever encounter in life. Are we setting good examples and instilling qualities in them that ensure she allows the right men into her life when she becomes an adult?

The way we treat her mother and even the kinds of women we have in our lives that she observes will most likely shape how she perceives men and what she thinks is acceptable treatment. So if you are the bad boy type, or a thug type or anything you HOPE she never meets, guess what?
If you are constantly parading new girlfriend after new girlfriend in front of her then guess what? Children pick up on a LOT more than we think........

So what are your thoughts, be honest.