Some Women and Men are so used to being dogged out and abused that it's all they know. When or if true love comes along it'll scare them out of their mind because it's unfamiliar. Truth is, Love is a scary thing. Opening your soul to someone else and saying I trust you enough not to break me is extremely scary. But when love is right, it can make you feel like you can do anything. Just balancing that fear with your trust and then finally letting go of fear and saying, "ok I'm yours, don't drop me, I'll break" is nothing small to accomplish.
Pain is a part of life but to attempt to hide from possible failed relationships is to not truly live. We by nature are binary creatures. We are designed to be drawn to one another. Just the risk of finding love is worth the gamble. And if even for a second you get to experience it, you've won. So don't be scared of it.
