African Americans.....suffer

All African Americans who are possible descendants of slaves are suffering from generational post traumatic stress disorder. The effects of slavery are still prevalent in our mentalities and conditioned behavior. A good majority are suffering from self hatred. We were taught to hate our own skin and features, our men were taught to abandon their families not by that action but because they were systematically removed as the black families Masculine center piece. Everything is tied together. We are an ongoing social experiment of racism and other aspects.

We are all damaged. Let's be honest, we are wired to hate each other while being hated by the descendants of our former oppressors. We were never meant to remain in America after slavery ended. And to be honest it never ended, too many of us are mentally shackled. And the prison system is just legalized slavery that generates millions for the private sector. All kinds of things that we don't see are results of everything I stated.

We helped build this country but it's still not "For Us" yet. While we sit and bicker over stats on who is more fucked up our men or women, the wheels keep turning in our self inflicted and Racism assisted destruction. Keep it up folks.

Black Perception

Black men

i'm sorry to tell you this but, by constantly putting Black women "on blast" you also in turn make yourselves look bad. stating that they are the least desired women on the planet is like you are trying to ignore the fact that most non black people view you as the least desired man on Earth as well. news flash, you are a NOVELTY fuck. Nothing against interracial dating but Black women hating Black men please don't assume that you are at the top of a large majority list. you can claim that every other woman is better than the black woman all you want, you are still a black man and a nigger in the eyes of the ones who would enslave you if the chance came. (not all non blacks feel this way but understand the hidden mentality of closet racists) So what are you trying to do? are you fighting for the second to last place? passing off your opinion as fact in order to look a little better to your imaginary admirers is hilarious. you are displaying the "crabs in a bucket" mentality with your own women.

The stereotypes about Black men and women is about equal, Men we are viewed and portrayed in the media and shows as deadbeat dads, drug dealers, thieves and criminals not worthy of any respect and bound for prison. Our women are viewed as baby mommas, hoodrats and weave wearing loud mouths. Getting online to bash our women just shows that you are failing them. blaming everything on feminism and single mothers for the destruction of the black community is a logical fallacy (lol yes i used your favorite term). you must understand that single mothers cannot exist without absentee fathers and black women being involved in the feminism movement could not have happened without some of our fathers allowing it to happen. every action or LACK of action has and equal but opposite reaction. We are JUST as responsible for everything that has happened and yet today some of us would rather point fingers to shift blame instead of recognizing the events that contribute to our current state and enacting solutions to change it. And joining any extremist movements like Masculinism or mgtow will have the same effect that feminism had, especially if you have not fixed the broken bonds between you and your women. creating a bigger divide than what's already present. how logical is that? to openly blame feminism then join a similar movement along the same lines.......idiocy.

perception is reality. By helping others to see your women in a negative light all the time, you help their perception become their reality and by cosigning each other in all the negative speak, it also becomes YOUR reality. if you have never met or dated a great Black woman, it's time to look at yourself. you have accepted too many bad examples and allowed it to become your reality, then covering up your mistakes with unequal blame without acknowledging self in the equation. While it's true there are ratchet women out there, but no one told you to date them all lol.

Understanding all factors that lead to an end result is the best way to begin implementing solutions to fix what you hate so much, it all didn't happen over night. Fellas it's Time to wake up lead the way in a unified movement to erase the stereotypes of Black women and Black men and become what we want to be seen as. make our reality become the perception.

Build up what we lost

Men control how women see themselves, we control why they change their style, hair and behavior. If we never focused so much on ass and titties they would never have thought that's all we wanted.
You think chics on Facebook and intagram just started sticking their asses out in pics for nothing? Check out XXL magazine, Black men magazine or any other publication Or music video, that's all you'll see. We put a demand and pressure on Black women to be slutty and now we're upset at the monsters we created. We go out and use women over and over just for sex and wonder why they've become cold, uncaring and only good for sex. We've stripped away everything that made them unique from all other women on the planet.

We've left them to be brainwashed by the European standard of beautiful and they've all but abandoned their natural state. We can't be angry at what we helped develop. We as men let them down, we allow fake thugs on TV and reality shows tell them who to be, five star chics, bussit babies and bad bitches. Now all we see are poor exaples of what our women should be. Some of us are so color struck we "prefer" light, bright and almost white yet some of us have the nerve to claim we are "pro black" "Melaninated men" but unproud of our many shades of women we have. Or call them "benwenches" if they date outside their race when some of us act like we don't love them. And what about black men who date outside their race, should they be called "bed mitches"? People date whoever they want, big deal, no need for the double standards fellas.

Wonder why our Women are bleaching their skin? Some of us have made them so ashamed to be Black they forgot what it was. I hate when I hear a Black woman say "I'm going natural"..........Sister you should say "I'm returning to who I always was"

Enough bashing what we helped create, time to build up what we lost.