Black Perception

Black men

i'm sorry to tell you this but, by constantly putting Black women "on blast" you also in turn make yourselves look bad. stating that they are the least desired women on the planet is like you are trying to ignore the fact that most non black people view you as the least desired man on Earth as well. news flash, you are a NOVELTY fuck. Nothing against interracial dating but Black women hating Black men please don't assume that you are at the top of a large majority list. you can claim that every other woman is better than the black woman all you want, you are still a black man and a nigger in the eyes of the ones who would enslave you if the chance came. (not all non blacks feel this way but understand the hidden mentality of closet racists) So what are you trying to do? are you fighting for the second to last place? passing off your opinion as fact in order to look a little better to your imaginary admirers is hilarious. you are displaying the "crabs in a bucket" mentality with your own women.

The stereotypes about Black men and women is about equal, Men we are viewed and portrayed in the media and shows as deadbeat dads, drug dealers, thieves and criminals not worthy of any respect and bound for prison. Our women are viewed as baby mommas, hoodrats and weave wearing loud mouths. Getting online to bash our women just shows that you are failing them. blaming everything on feminism and single mothers for the destruction of the black community is a logical fallacy (lol yes i used your favorite term). you must understand that single mothers cannot exist without absentee fathers and black women being involved in the feminism movement could not have happened without some of our fathers allowing it to happen. every action or LACK of action has and equal but opposite reaction. We are JUST as responsible for everything that has happened and yet today some of us would rather point fingers to shift blame instead of recognizing the events that contribute to our current state and enacting solutions to change it. And joining any extremist movements like Masculinism or mgtow will have the same effect that feminism had, especially if you have not fixed the broken bonds between you and your women. creating a bigger divide than what's already present. how logical is that? to openly blame feminism then join a similar movement along the same lines.......idiocy.

perception is reality. By helping others to see your women in a negative light all the time, you help their perception become their reality and by cosigning each other in all the negative speak, it also becomes YOUR reality. if you have never met or dated a great Black woman, it's time to look at yourself. you have accepted too many bad examples and allowed it to become your reality, then covering up your mistakes with unequal blame without acknowledging self in the equation. While it's true there are ratchet women out there, but no one told you to date them all lol.

Understanding all factors that lead to an end result is the best way to begin implementing solutions to fix what you hate so much, it all didn't happen over night. Fellas it's Time to wake up lead the way in a unified movement to erase the stereotypes of Black women and Black men and become what we want to be seen as. make our reality become the perception.