I'm guessing then since I'm not enraged or angered by the women I've experienced and observed in my life then I don't feel the need to combat the the women who have nothing to do with my life. If I encounter one that can evoke anger from me then I'll address her on a one by one level. I can't see myself harping on all the "bad ones" especially if I've never met them all. Especially if I don't know the "why" she is the way she is. Everyone comes from a different background and I don't know every ones story so it's not logically sound to toss them all into the same box simply because they possess similar traits and mannerisms.
I can understand the standpoint. I just thought that men would rather take a higher route. Bickering with a woman over something like this should be be beneath a man. I can't sit and rehash a subject over and over and expect a different result. If these women are supposed to be so irrational, then how rational is it to continually attempt a connection to make them see their error? That's irrational and illogical.
The women that I've encountered never try to out man a man and it seems like every notion of "feminist supremacy" or conspiracy comes from a mans mind, sometimes that's just not what's going on. Fact is no matter what I say, there will always be someone not willing to listen that will find everything wrong with it and find every reason to not simply let go and move on. There can be no battle if there is NO battle. Meaning just stop. Our Black Women WANT to love us, will we let them? If we continue to hold onto these scars and wounds we will never heal as a people. THEY don't have to kill us off. We WILLFULLY commit slow genocide by the way we seem to hate each other. We have no accountability for ourselves as a whole. There are BIGGER problems on the world stage and we are stuck pointing fingers trying to one up each other. We can't even get along long enough to to realize how stupid we look fighting each other. And it's sad, it's draining, it's a miserable existence that only weakens us. Family, community, nation. FAMILY, COMMUNITY, NATION. we don't seem to want either. Men and women can't see eye to eye long enough to create family, families don't exist to strengthen a community and without a network of communities there can be no nation. We are DYING.........and no one his slitting our throats and we are holding the knife.
Men afraid to lead because WE can't even get on the same page. Noble and righteous traits are labeled simpdom, petty bickering and false leaders who lead our men to darkness and many are too blind to see it. We were molded long ago to hate ourselves and each other. We are too swallowed in mutual hate for one another that we cannot see passed our own noses. We have to wake up. There CAN be peace and there will be I won't give up and discard my people as easily as some others will. I believe in reaching out and pulling up my lost sisters and brothers. No need to kick them when we already perceive them as lower than us or scum. But EVERY man and woman is created equal so how dare we just dismiss them because they are not pleasing to us. No one is perfect yet we will treat those we deem unworthy as nothing. ....we all we once nothing in the eyes of masters..........have we forgotten?
We are still feeling the effects of it all, psychologically stunted in growth. So much that we won't allow ourselves to GET PASSED ourselves. We can't have peace because some people don't possess peace within........... nor do they want it.
Perception is reality and I just have to accept that my perception is not others reality. Especially if they refuse to see more than what's at the tip of the accusing finger. Focused so hard on one point in existence that the rest of the world ceases to exist.
The strongest prison ever created has no bars.......
