Females in the Military........my thoughts

I think that a woman in the Military can do whatever she sets her mind to, only because i have seen it with my own eyes during my 13 year military career. Once i was a young Corporal leading a convoy and we had to escort a Female Army Sergeant and her soldiers to another location, then continue on to our mission elsewhere in Iraq, we were attacked and one of her soldiers was shot in the neck by a sniper, she died instantly and we had to stop the convoy and return fire. The Marines i served with and the Army soldiers that were with us male and female held there own, we managed to fight off the assault, kill a handful of the enemy and get out of there with minor wounded and 1 dead. the thing is, once you get into a situation like that, and the bullets start flying passed your head, the gender of the person next to you becomes a non issue. you just know that that person has your back, they are your lifeline and you are theirs.

 People say that women will be a big distraction but believe me, nothing is a bigger distraction than a 7.62 mm round shot from an AK 47 lol. the reality is that their are women in combat Jobs already, there are female special teams out there in the Army right now doing patrols, security and various duties, Marine martial arts instructors even in construction like the Navy Sea Bees. any Job you choose in the military can become a potential combat MOS, why? because all military members are trained as a Rifleman and soldier as their base function. the question has never really been can women do the job in the Armed Forces that a man can do. The answer to that is that they already are. the real question is when will the rest of America accept it. -----salute to my female military members

Grown man behavior 101

I have never asked for a woman's number, i feel like if it's meant for me to have it and she is feeling me, after or during our conversation she will offer to communicate more (opening a chance to gain the number) or she will just offer it straight out, then that way i have never had to wonder if she was actually interested in me or she was just being nice without the intent to follow up. just my logic though. there shouldn't be any reason to rush, you gotta understand that she most likely gets asked for her number all the time and one thing you don't want to do is fall into a category with the rest of the knuckle heads she encounters. your job is to stand out, so why hit her with game and lines when everyone else already does? Actually being yourself can usually do that for you, now guess what, you have a base line of who you are established, you don't have to hide who you are because she has seen it already AND most of all, you don't have to lie. no point in hounding her when you got time to actually develop a relationship/friendship over time, also, most people just go off looks initially so the interest is only physical and after you get a number TOO fast then find out on the phone you picked a pretty idiot, then what lol. waste of time lol, then there are the guys who waste a woman's time with game in the beginning then they fall off later and she thinks he changed, in reality he just got comfortable and started being himself.

 that first impression will stay with her and to her you are a genuine guy compared to whatever else she has met. now there are some women who are just attracted to the idiots and the "real niggas"......that can't be helped, you have two choices now if you meet one of these women, you can (A) try to show her that a Grown man is better than a "real nigga" or (B) you can run like hell because it may be a lost cause lol. now if you didn't get her number the first time meeting, don't worry. if you carried yourself well and she has the sense to differentiate between a man who respects boundaries and has patience for things worth waiting for, the next time you meet your first impression has been on her mind since that day maybe. she's thought about it and most likely will be eager for the second encounter, just continue to be yourself and see what happens, no need for fake charm if you don't already possess that trait........sorry bro, can't help you there.

 if all goes well, things should progress naturally and well......you get the picture. REMEMBER she is not an object to gain possession of, she is a person. (this has been PSA titled "Grown man behavior 101" ---disclaimer, if any of my exes read this, i may not have been like this back then but i've learned a lot over the years, High school Shai doesn't count and college Shai, let's not even bring him into this lol)

Dead beat Dads

PSA for Dead Beat Fathers everywhere: .......I hate you sorry sons of bitches, you make me sick to my stomach you low life bastards. Now that I got that out of the way. Sit down let me talk to you punk muthafu**as. It's tax season, so NOW you want to get along with your children's mother? You want to see the kids and even buy Christmas presents but ALL YEAR where were you when school clothes needed to be purchased, field trips needed to be financed, food needed to be bought so they could eat another day? So on and so on. You mean to tell me YOU have the audacity to want to claim a child on your taxes which YOU barely acknowledged all year? You want to get extra money claiming a dependent that actually depended on their MOTHER or another man instead of you? And YOU really think that's cool? You gave NOTHING in the realm of fatherhood whether it be TIME, MONEY, ENERGY, WISDOM, ADVICE, BEING A ROLE MODEL, TEACHER, MENTOR, LOVE, AFFECTION, NOTHING, yet you feel  you are obligated to reap the benefits of carrying a child on your taxes in which you will most likely spend on yourself or some whore you are with now?  What bundle of brain cells  deemed this retarded logic as a legit train of thought? You are the lowest of the low and deserve NOTHING in return for your lack of manhood and even less for your poor display of responsibility. Your life is worthless, YOU are worthless and the ONLY thing you ever did right in this world is help create a wonderful child. If this offended any men out there who make excuses for not taking care of their child, GOOD!! Raising Your child is not a job, it is your DUTY as a man and father. YOU are responsible for their future. Salute to any man who can step in and take care of a child who is not biologically theirs and salute to single mothers, I know it's hard.