Grown man behavior 101

I have never asked for a woman's number, i feel like if it's meant for me to have it and she is feeling me, after or during our conversation she will offer to communicate more (opening a chance to gain the number) or she will just offer it straight out, then that way i have never had to wonder if she was actually interested in me or she was just being nice without the intent to follow up. just my logic though. there shouldn't be any reason to rush, you gotta understand that she most likely gets asked for her number all the time and one thing you don't want to do is fall into a category with the rest of the knuckle heads she encounters. your job is to stand out, so why hit her with game and lines when everyone else already does? Actually being yourself can usually do that for you, now guess what, you have a base line of who you are established, you don't have to hide who you are because she has seen it already AND most of all, you don't have to lie. no point in hounding her when you got time to actually develop a relationship/friendship over time, also, most people just go off looks initially so the interest is only physical and after you get a number TOO fast then find out on the phone you picked a pretty idiot, then what lol. waste of time lol, then there are the guys who waste a woman's time with game in the beginning then they fall off later and she thinks he changed, in reality he just got comfortable and started being himself.

 that first impression will stay with her and to her you are a genuine guy compared to whatever else she has met. now there are some women who are just attracted to the idiots and the "real niggas"......that can't be helped, you have two choices now if you meet one of these women, you can (A) try to show her that a Grown man is better than a "real nigga" or (B) you can run like hell because it may be a lost cause lol. now if you didn't get her number the first time meeting, don't worry. if you carried yourself well and she has the sense to differentiate between a man who respects boundaries and has patience for things worth waiting for, the next time you meet your first impression has been on her mind since that day maybe. she's thought about it and most likely will be eager for the second encounter, just continue to be yourself and see what happens, no need for fake charm if you don't already possess that trait........sorry bro, can't help you there.

 if all goes well, things should progress naturally and well......you get the picture. REMEMBER she is not an object to gain possession of, she is a person. (this has been PSA titled "Grown man behavior 101" ---disclaimer, if any of my exes read this, i may not have been like this back then but i've learned a lot over the years, High school Shai doesn't count and college Shai, let's not even bring him into this lol)