Communication is a big problem between men and women because there is a MAJOR communication gap between men and women that STARTS at birth. Think about it, young women are raised and taught to express their emotions, communicate and voice their feelings. Young boys on the other hand are taught that this kind of thing is seen as "soft" or not manly. We are never taught to express our innermost feelings nor are we encouraged to do do.
Now fast forward to adulthood. Many women WANT a man who is able to do these things and TALK to her. As men we are often unable to properly do this because we never nurtured that part of ourselves. In essense we have a stunted communicative skill in regards to our female counterparts. This and other factors contribute to the communication problem that men and women face. We must remove the stigma that comes with being men who can actually talk to our women and women must understand that they can be receptive of this possibility. With both sides willing, it can drastically change the dynamic. Just my thoughts though.
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