Think about this, many men were taught at an early age that you aren't a man unless you are sleeping with multiple women. When doing so, we get praised for it like "you're a playa". This mentality is seen in our music, movies and everywhere. Being a ladies man is presented as being desirable.
On the flip side, most women are taught that to be a respectable woman you must keep your body count low, get a good guy and settle down. Get married and have kids.
Now here's the fucked up part, as humans we like a challenge. So the ladies men (bad boys) are challeged to get that good girl and finally smash, never wife, only GET what no one else can. And those "good girls" are challeged to get the ladies man and make him want to change his ways and settle with her, becoming everything she wanted minus the "ladies man" ways.
Now tell me if that'll ever work. Ladies, unless that man wants to genuinely change, there's NOTHING you can do to make it happen. Your best bet is to simply avoid the bad boys unless you are looking to gamble a bet most of you lose in the long run. It's not your choice to make or influence. Each man has his own personal journey into manhood, you may be a factor in it but you are never the catalyst. if you try to force it, you'll most likely meet resistance. Let him discover for himself.
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