A single mother that has learned to use better judgment in choosing the men she dates has every right to have high standards. She's actively taking accountability for her previous mistakes and choosing to do better by filtering the scum types out from the door.
Some people try to make it seem like a woman is "damaged goods" because she has a child but don't take into account the possibility of failed marriages, lying men whole played the good guy role then ducked off and/or failed birth control. There are too many factors and possibilities to simply demonize single mothers under one stigma. Also, why aren't Sorry men reprimanded/ridiculed and forced to be held accountable for their actions at the same level? It should be equal across the board. There ARE single mothers who do NOT fit the description of the baby momma with multiple baby daddys. I've learned that it's not fair to judge before knowing a person's story. Some are GREAT women and you could miss out because you judged too soon.
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